On Friday October 6, 2006 we have the Full Moon in inspirational Aries opposing the Sun in charming Libra, Full Moons always bring light to darkness; the shadow side to Libra is the focus on outer appearances rather than substance, peace at any price, indecision, and the preoccupation with what others think.  Aries being the first sign of the zodiac, which means independence, initiative, and passion its shadow side, is selfishness, impatience, and aggression.  

            We all have Libra and Aries somewhere in our natal chart.  Wherever you find Aries in your chart indicates where you need to be more independent, because only then will you feel a sense of completion.  Wherever Libra is found in your natal chart is where you have been “out-of-balance” in the house affairs.  The scales were tipped too far to one extreme and must now be balanced. Here is where “you reap what you have sown in previous lifetimes.” In other words, your former traits and attitudes concerning the house affairs are being mirrored back to you by those in your environment.   

            Libra is the natural ruler of the seventh house of relationships, marriage, and business partners, and the house of open enemies.  I find it ironic that the house of marriage is also the house of open enemies.. What is Creator trying to tell us?  Is it because all relationships are a mirror reflection of us and that perhaps we are at war with an aspect of Self that without the outer person reflecting this back to us we could not get to the core of our inner struggles and heal Self?

             I often see people remaining in toxic relationships because of their fear of being alone.  To be alone, is to be with God, alone = “all oneness.”  One dear client struggling to get out of a very bad relationship, with her live-in drug addict, rock star boyfriend tells me: “Kelley I don’t want to be alone?” I responded, “What scares you about living alone?”  She said: “If I am alone I will have to deal with myself. I can no longer hide from myself.”  Is this why so many people stay in unhealthy relationships to avoid the evitable day and date with Self?  I believe you can conquer the inner demons now, or come back again, and do it later. 

             Above all else, we will come back again, and again, and again until we confront being alone.  We cannot make the Ascenion, get off the wheel of karma or even fulfill our mission (right livlihood) if we have not yet attained a level of Self-mastery that empowers us to be our very best, strongest Self.  How can we really be on a spiritual path, which requires the marriage to our Higher Self, our God Self, if we have false gods in the way?  The false gods can be relationships that are not an authentic reflection of you, friends that are not really true friends, family members that are more like muggles (non magical people) than soul family.  What are your soul family you may ask?

             Your soul family are people in embodiment as well as your spirit guides in heaven, that are bonded to you from a spiritual connection. Who align with you to accelerate you on your personal and spiritual path.  Soul mates are your spiritual teachers and come in all shapes and sizes, friends, lovers, colleagues, and will accelerate your growth to push you beyond your self-imposed limitations. In order for you to realize “who” you really are, to be your most authentic, powerful Self!  

            Now is the time we are all feeling the fire to accelerate, it will come as anxiety, depression, urgency, uneasiness. Where you here your inner voice say; “Are you in right livlihood?  Are you married to you first? Is s/he your soul mate? Where are you out-of-balance?  What agreements do you need to renegotiate? Where is the middle ground?  

            “In the recent months, the temperature on one’s path of light has been turned up several notches. That’s the effect of magnification. Healers and other lightworkers throughout the world are facing some of their biggest changes, challenges and opportunities at this pivotal juncture. Life issues not yet addressed are coming into inescapable view. There is a need to clear up unresolved concerns. In tandem with this, people are feeling a kind of pressure from within to do, be or become something they have not yet manifested in the world. Relationships are being re-evaluated. If someone is in an old-paradigm type of relationship—involving control or domination or fear—imbalances must be addressed or substantial amounts of negative life-depleting energy force are generated. People are seeing more clearly the need to change how they communicate and relate to one another, to themselves, to their world, and to the Divine.” --Selacia, “A Year of Magnification: What to Expect in 2007” 

            Are you feeling stuck in a rut in work, relationships, life?  What if gratitude is the antidote? Could gratitude be the secret way out? Instead of complaining of how hard life is, i.e., too much personal debt, job challenges, and relationship difficulties.  Instead, when you rise first thing in the morning you say out loud: “I Am going to make this a great day.”  And throughout your day you can say, "I am grateful for my comfortable, lovely home. I am grateful for my friends.  I am grateful for my clients. I am grateful for my family.  I am grateful to my employer.  I am grateful for my colleagues.  I am grateful for my business partners.  I am grateful for…"       

       What if gratitude is actually more powerful than love?  What if gratitude is the secret weapon we need to move into the new accelerated energy that will continue today and all of 2007.  What if this is the most important life you will ever have? Being that Your conscious choices can change the world from chaos and despair to peace and hope.  Attitude is everything.  Gratitude may be our greatest tool to what lies ahead.  Moreover, gratitude is the alchemical key to Shifting out of making more of what we don’t want, to creating the life, work, relationships we truly desire, and deserve!

Relationship Astrology can give you the edge up

            Knowing your partner’s psychology, pathologies, strengths, weaknesses, and true nature from his or her natal astrology can prove incredibly helpful in determining if s/he can be in a healthy relationship with you. Love's illusion can lead you blinded by the light of your own desire and not see the person for who they really are, what they are truly in your life to teach you, thus heartache follows.  Have you two been together in a previous life? What roles have you played before with each other?  Husband and wife, siblings, parent/child or best friends? Knowing the history can greatly help you in the present. What are the hurdles and bumps along the road of love for you? Can s/he give you what you need in partnership? Do you really know what you want in relationship?  Above all else, we must have a commitment to Self and Creator in order to understand who we uniquely are; from this awareness and strong personal foundation, we are better able to enter into healthy relationships with friends, family, lovers, and colleagues.   Instead of asking is this my soul mate? Why not ask, what does this relationship have to offer? What are our soul agreements? Does s/he bring out your personal best? Does s/he challenge you to grow and evolve? Is s/he interested in spiritual advancement? Is s/he an authentic reflection of you?  Is s/he your highest complimentary partner? Or do you feel in your heart that "the one" for you is still out there? 

          Moreover, I have seen countless times when two individuals can have fabulous, harmonious relationship astrology; but if they have not yet worked through their personal issues, (natal astrology) and if they are not complete with their past, hence, possessing too much "emotional baggage" this will interfere with the ability for healthy relationship NOW.  As a result, he or she may not be available for union in the way you desire. There will always be challenges to every relationship, even if you are twin flames or soul mates. You may not have a soul agreement for a long term partnership.  This is why situations do not always pleasantly line up between two people who love each other very much. The relationship astrology is a powerful tool for you to understand how your relationship works on the most dynamic, intimate levels of body, mind, spirit, heart, and soul. In truth, no relationship is a mistake, but not all relationships are destined to be long-term happy liaisons. 

      In addition, relationship astrology can be used for business partnerships, children, and friend's comparisons. How compatible are we? Will we be a profitable business match? Why am I so attracted to you? Are you from my past? Friends, colleagues and lovers get the insight and understanding into what the relationship is "for" and not necessarily what you want it to be! Qualify all your relationships. You deserve to know the truth!

Lightning love, Kelley Rosano