The Super Moon on Monday May 5^th

            Is a Taurus New Moon and meaning closest proximity to the earth; thus will have a greater impact on the weather, the oceans, earthquake activity, and on us personally.  As we travel through Taurus, influenced by her ruling planet the love goddess Venus, we are reminded to follow our bliss. Venus the ruler of Taurus (our core values) and Libra (our relationships) will be emphasized.   May is a time to think about what is really important to you. What are your goals?   Is your heart really in what you are doing?

          Venus in our natal birth chart shows the astrologer what the client love’s, appreciates, enjoys and values.  I have one client I am coaching. Who is very successful in his field.  He has learned to master his skill as a savvy influential lawyer. He is incredibly thorough, very smart and not afraid of a good fight.  He believes in what he is doing. He draws great strength and energy from his work.  Where do you get your energy? What gives you strength? Who or what drains you? What are you tolerating?

           What is missing from his life is a partner. Someone he can share his life with and love.  I am working with him to move him to a place where he would be ready for his true love.  Did I mention he is really good looking? You may think why would a man that capable and attractive have trouble finding his perfect mate? His natal Venus is severely challenged by Saturn and Pluto creating feelings of shame, guilt and unworthiness.  When this happens some people have low self-esteem and don’t feel deserving of love.  His inner dialogue is Self-critical, negative and judgmental.  Thus, in his past, he has attracted women that are cruel, abusive and mostly use him for their own agenda.  Hence, women are not matching him on a soul level. He is attracting them from his self-hatred.  What is wild to me is that he would never put up with such abuse in his business relationships. But personally he has allowed lovers to take advantage of him.  

          “Worthiness, in very simple terms, means I have found a way to let the Energy reach me, the Energy that is natural, reach me. Worthiness, or unworthiness, is something that is pronounced upon you by you. You are the only one that can deem yourself worthy or unworthy. You are the only one who can love yourself into a state of allowing, or hate yourself in a state of disallowing. There is not something wrong with you, nor is there something wrong with one who is not loving you. You are all just, in the moment, practicing the art of not allowing, or the art of resisting.” –Abraham-Hicks

           In truth, we cannot receive love from a worthy partner when we don’t love Self.  Perhaps this is why so many people settle in loveless relationships or unpleasant jobs. What good if a man prospers if he doesn’t have love? We are not here to settle.  Life is not a dress rehearsal.  We are in life to feel alive, passionate, happy and experience love.  Just as the Sun is the center of our universe. You are the Star of your life.  And, life is here to serve you.  Are you in a toxic relationship or job?  What is your heart telling you?

            I am working with my client to build his Self-esteem, to get him ready for his special love.  Each client I work with is unique and on their own timetable. Coaching creates lasting change through a process of commitment and not a one-time event.  First, he must practice Self-love. Daily he is to take notice of how he behaves towards Self. Is his actions self-loving or hurtful? Every time he says or does anything Self-critical or negative. He must then follow it with a boost of positive support. For instance, he is to focus on his good qualities and strengths encouraging his positive Self-talk (how we talk to ourselves) to grow stronger and his negative voice weaker. Improving loving behavior toward Self would be for him to get more rest, take cat naps and schedule a relaxing massage. This homework may sound easy until you put it into practice. Having a coach partner with you and hold you accountable is the magic that makes the difference.

             Second, he is to connect with his Inner Being and ask him what he really wants.  The outer Self must forsake hiding in work or living for others approval and connect with the Inner Self to be in harmony. Third, when he arises in the morning he cannot rush into the office, jump on the computer, and be consumed by emails or make phone calls. He must get his coffee and sit quietly for a few minutes. And then do something joyful, for him it is walking outside in his beautiful yard. This sets the tone of his day for joy.  After two weeks of the above behavioral changes. He has realized he doesn’t really want to be a workaholic; regardless of the outer success and money.  He is exhausted and wants more time to have fun. He loves to play golf.  His astrology is saying that the universe has a very significant relationship on the horizon for him. My goal is to empower him to be ready when she arrives.  Are you ready to attract your true love or ideal job? “It's ever so much more satisfying to get into a blissful place and attract a blissful person and live blissfully hereafter than to be in a negative place and attract a negative partner and then try to get happy from that negative place.” –Abraham -Hicks

Blessings in
Love, health, happiness, and prosperity,
Kelley Rosano


 

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