Master Communicator Program

 

How well do you come across?
These are how others would likely describe your communication style.
 1.Loud123Quiet
2.Fast/slow123Natural
 3.Charged up/down123Neutral
 4.Complain123Pleased
 5.Flat123Expressive
 6.Speak at123Share with
7.Heavy/significant123Light
 8.Pedantic123Simple
 9.Suspicious123Friendly/trusting
10.Rigid123Flexible

 

How well do you listen?
How well do you hear what is being said, and not said?
11.Listen hard123Be with
12.Hear info/facts123Hear i tall
13.Wait for evidence123Trust inklings
14.Acquires info123Learn
15.Listens passively123Knows what to listen for
16.Prepares response123Hears the person
17.Doubting123Accepting
18.Interrupts123Prompts
19.One thing at a time123Can handle multiple inputs
20.Hears 10-90%123Hears 90-100%
How well do you articulate?
How well are you understood?
21.Talks at123Contextualizes
22.Lectures123Educates
23.Rambles123Succinct
24.Cliches123Messages
25.Jargon123“English”
26.Rote123Personalizes
27.General terms123Specific terms
28.Holds back123Says it all
29.Convoluted123Clear
30.Limited vocabulary123Extensive vocabulary

 

What do you converse about?
What do you focus on and talk about with others?
31.Symptoms123Source of the problem
32.The negative123The positive
33.The past123The present/how things are
34.Coulds and shoulds123What you really want
35.Reactions123Chosen responses
36.Swaps info123Dances
37.Responds to facts123Gets the gist
38.The“What”123The“Who”
39.Facts123Concepts
40.Others123Yourselves

 

How well do you converse?
How often do you have fluid, two-way conversations?
41.Repeats/echos123Improves phrasing
42.Reactive123Responsive
43.Speak(half-duplex)123Speak & listen(full)
44.Unaware of mood123Matches mood
45.Distracted123Attentive
46.Confrontive123Evoking
47.Delayed response123Immediate response
48.Adds a spin123Adds no spin
49.Non-sequitur123Tracks/follows
50.Pepper with questions123Clarifies what was said

 

How authentic do you sound?
How real are you and how real do you sound?
51.Pretentious123Non pretentious
52.Puffs up people123Is accurate with praise
53.Sneaky123Forthright, forthcoming
54.Dishonest123Completely honest
55.Overstates123Accurately states
56.Performs123Relates
57.Knows it all123Seeks to learn
58.Is “affected”123Real
59.Full of it123Legitimate
60.Not genuine/insincere123Genuine
How big are you?
How flexible, respectful and generous are you?
61.Critical123Constructive
62.Excludes people123Includes people
63.One-ups123Endorses
64.Disrespectful123Respectful
65.Result-driven123Person-oriented
66.Judges123Tolerant
67.Pushes agenda123Shares your views
68.“On”123Not“on”
69.Rigid123Open
70.Digs123Builds a person up
How mature are you?
What does your communication style tell others about you?
71.Hesitant123Confident
72.Fearful123Goes forit
73.Speaks haltingly123Fluid
74.Repeats/mimics123Synthesizes
75.Gossips123Doesn’tgossip
76.Childish123Adult
77.Blames123Owns
78.Clueless123Speakswithwisdom
79.Speaks from theory123Speaks from experience
80.Righteous123Compassionately accurate

 

How free are you of communication blocks?
What’s holding back your effectiveness as a communicator?
81.Compulsive talker123Listens more than talks
82.Personally needy123Has plenty, a reserve
83.Adrenalined/up123Present
84.Ignorant123Informed/educated
85.Toxic personality person123Clean and healthy
86.Attached to past123Creating a future
87.Stressed123Calm
88.Unconscious123Conscious/aware
89.Blind spots123360 degree view
90.Conspiratorial123Cooperative

 

10.How effective are you?
How good are you at producing results?
91.Hints at123Asks directly
92.Silent/says little123Speaks up/requests
93.Dealing in past123Dealing in the present
94.Immediate gratification123Long-term investor
95.Win-oriented123Win-win oriented
96.Problem-oriented123Solution-oriented
97.Book knowledge123Streets marts
98.Shares a goal123Inspires with a vision
99.Bounces around123Sees/gets right to problem
100Talks about stuff123Is “for”stuff

4 Comments

  1. I am not sure how to answer the above. I am not sure which one I am. I would like to know how to use it though I definitely feel I need it, a new/improved communication style. Thanks.

  2. I would love to do a webinar on this awesome program. I may offer it in August and tie to it reaching your dreams and prosperity.

  3. Very thought provoking. Good tool for self reflection & development. Also helps pinpoint why some folks can be so frustrating to talk to.

  4. Dr. Shrikant Akolekar

    I have been watching your videos. Today, I read you. You are very professorial and educative. Every bit . You are awesome, Kelley. I mean it.

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