Twin Flames or Soul Mates… is Yours a Karmic Relationship?
It always fascinates me to see what brings people together. Why are we drawn into relationships that have a certain destiny? Astrology reveals our psychology, spirituality, evolution, and astrology tells the story about karma and past lives, why we are attracted to specific people, our personal, past-life patterns (personality and behavior) are being acted out in the here and now.
In other words, time is an illusion your past and future lives are running simultaneously in the present. As an astrological intuitive, I see that no two people have identical astrology or past life history, not even twin flames.
What is a twin flame you may ask?
The term most often has been confused with that of soul mates the two are distinctly different. The greatest love story ever told is the one you have with your very own beloved twin flame. In the beginning we were created in God (Alpha and Omega) in an ovoid white-fire-spirit-light, the soul was split just like the atom (Adam Kadman) into two identical parts (twin flames) each with the same identical soul blueprint. The tai-chi is a symbol of twin flames. Twin flames in love spiraling in infinity.
We then went forth from the Etheric realm (heaven) of God’s perfect light into denser levels of consciousness (the physical world). The actual saga of Adam and Eve is about twin flames, for we all have our own Adam and Eve story. Somewhere in cosmos, each one of us has our very own divine other, who carries either the feminine or masculine polarity.
This soul memory of our twin flame is so powerful, that we can feel very alone in this world, as we search for that promise of that original perfect love, the twin. No other love can compare to your own twin flame. Moreover, what I have seen with some clients in very difficult relationships choosing to suffer in agonizing pain, just to be with their twin flame.
The movies Somewhere in Time, The English Patient and Moulin Rouge are modern day examples of twin flame love. Twin flames throughout history and literature are seen as tragic love stories i.e., Cleopatra and Mark Anthony, Samson and Delilah. The dark forces of anti-love run rampant on planet earth, working to sabotage twin flames and keep them apart. Often twin flames do not have enough Self-mastery to maintain a healthy partnership. Thus, they seek solace with the next best alternative a soul mate.
Soul Mates are passionate friends of old
Soul mates and karmic relationships are the other two positions of partnership. Soul mates can create very happy marriages as they are working on similar soul initiations, life lessons, and projects in this life. Soul mates have been friends for life times and may need each other in this life to satisfy a mission or complete a work. They may not experience the incredible, all-consuming, intense love dynamic as twin flames.
However, soul mates experience a calmer, more stable connection on the lines of a brother and a sister type rapport. This is not to say that they don’t experience chemistry and passion. It is the slow burn that lasts a lifetime. Not the all consuming twin flame fire that can destroy lives. I find the very best marriages to be between soul mates they work very harmoniously together in business, raising children and contributing to the community. Soul mates make us feel happier, stronger and richer.
Karmic relationships and karmic debt
Karmic relationships are often confused with that of twin flames because they have the same intense attraction and emotional charge. The I can’t get you out of my head thing, mental obsession. My body will not stop desiring you, the compulsive sexual attraction. In truth, these are often symptoms of a tragic past life experience from a prior life. Your soul is offering you as a warning Not a green light to get involved.
Yet people often ignore or mistake their Inner Being voice and jump in full speed ahead, only to come out hurt, defeated and lost. I speak from personal and professional experience. Karmic relationships are where either the person owes you a karmic-debt or you owe them from a former life. The liaison ends when the debt is paid or when Spirit determines the time of opportunity to play the relationship out is up.
All relationships are for mutual growth and personal evolution. How can you tell if you are in a karmic relationship? No relationship is perfect, but if you feel like you need therapy as a result of being with this person, then this could be an indicator. Feeling drained emotionally, physically, and financially are all indicators of a karmic entanglement. If you feel like you are on a downward spiral and are losing income your relationships is karmic. Are you doing all the giving and your partner is doing all the taking? Look-out it may be a karmic entanglement.
We need to love Self more than the need for any relationship. You are having a relationship with You first. We need to be in a strong healthy relationship with Self in order to be healthy with another. The Age of Aquarius is the age of Twin Flames and Soul Mates coming together in love to anchor in our Golden Age. In truth, we are the forerunners of this Great Golden Age dawning. The power of love between twin flames and soul mates spreads out into our communities and their love heals us all.
Balance is the key in all successful relationships and how the universe works. There must be an equal amount of giving and receiving for a healthy balanced union. Successful relationships whether they are twin flames, soul mates or karmic relationships give and receive from each other creating a healthy balanced dynamic.
Relationship Astrology Can Give You The Edge
Knowing your partner’s psychology, pathologies, strengths, weaknesses, and true nature from his or her natal astrology can prove incredibly helpful in determining if s/he can be in a healthy relationship with you. Love’s illusion can lead you blinded by the light of your own desire and not see the person for who they really are, what they are truly in your life to teach you, thus heartache can follow. Have you two been together in a previous life? Are you working out karmic issues from a previous life together? What roles have you played before with each other: husband and wife, siblings, parent/child or best friends?
Knowing the history can greatly help you in the present. What are the hurdles and bumps along the road of love for you? Can s/he give you what you need in partnership? Do you really know what you want in a relationship? Above all else, we must have a commitment to Self and Creator in order to understand who we uniquely are; from Self- awareness and strong personal foundation, we are better able to enter into healthy relationships with friends, family, lovers, and colleagues.
Instead of asking is this my soul mate?
Why not ask, what does this relationship have to offer?
What are our soul agreements?
Does s/he bring out your personal best?
Does s/he challenge you to grow and evolve?
Is s/he interested in spiritual advancement?
Is s/he an authentic reflection of you?
Is s/he your highest complimentary partner?
Or do you feel in your heart that “the one” for you is still out there?
I have seen countless times when two individuals can have fabulous and harmonious relationship astrology. Yet, if they have not yet worked through their personal issues, (natal astrology) they are not complete with their past. Thus, possessing too much emotional baggage can interfere with their ability for a healthy loving relationship today. As a result, s/he may not be available for union in the way you desire.
There will always be challenges to every relationship, including twin flames or soul mates. You may not have a soul agreement for a long term partnership. This is why situations do not always pleasantly line up between two people who love each other. The relationship astrology is a powerful tool for you to understand how your relationship works on the most dynamic, intimate levels of body, mind, spirit, heart, and soul. In truth, no relationship is a mistake, but not all relationships are destined to be long-term happy liaisons.
In addition, relationship astrology can be used for business partnerships, children, and friend’s comparisons. How compatible are we? Will we be a profitable business match? Why am I so attracted to you? Are you from my past? Friends, colleagues and lovers get the insight and understanding into what the relationship is “for” and not necessarily what you want it to be! Qualify all your relationships. You deserve to know the truth!
Love and Peace,
You can learn more about your twin flame and/or soul mate relationships by having a relationship astrology session. To learn more about relationship astrology: Relationship Astrology
Reader question to Kelley Rosano
You wrote ” The forces of anti-love work day and night to sabotage twin
flames and keep them apart” can you explain why that is? I would
appreciate a response
Donella (“Rosie “)Hines
C-17 Configuration & Data Management
Just as you have your own consciousness, we also have a collective consciousness or mass consciousness where we all agree together on one thought form or belief etc. The anti-forces of anti-love are the collective energy that comes through individuals and is determined to sabotage the love of twin flames. This force will use people who do not value love, spirituality, or God. You can see this throughout history where twin flames are born into opposing camps of people such as one Jewish the other Muslim. They are right for each other and in love but those around them do not have discernment and can not see there is no one more perfect for you as a partner than your own twin flame even if he/she is not the ‘right’ religion, race or economic standing. For if we were all with our twin flames we would be in the Golden Age of love. The Age of Aquarius dawning is the age of twin flames and soul mates we are all leaving behind karmic relationships. I hope this is helpful.
Yes, this definitely helps! I see now why it has been hard for me and my twin flame to get together …
You can read the latest version of this article from my blog: Twin Flame Love